“So, if I don’t like my host family I can always change, right?”
WRONG! A host family change can only occur AFTER a process of discussion that involves you, your host parents, and your liaison. Often, during this process, issues and misunderstandings that were causing tension are clarified, and all parties involved agree that a change is not necessary. Through this communication process, the relationship between you and your host family is often strengthened as you work out your differences and begin to understand each other better.
Working out differences and learning about different cultures and customs, by both the participant and the host family, is one of the goals of the AFS program, so don’t be afraid to talk to your host family or liaison about any concerns you have about your new living situation. Also, don’t be surprised if someone in the family has some concerns about having a new family member in the house. It takes time and good communication skills to get to know one another and to become integrated into a new family. Be patient, and remember to share your feelings, even if you are not used to doing this in your home country. Open communication from the very beginning of your AFS experience have the potential to make it one of the most rewarding and enriching experiences of your lifetime.